Embracing a Pineapple Mindset

Hello there! I'm Chloe, my journey is a testament to the transformative power of embracing vulnerability and the unique journey that adoption brings.

FROM SOUTH KOREA TO EVERYWHERE

I was forced into a life journey that would take me from South Korea to a world of challenges and triumphs when I was adopted at 5 months old. Growing up, I faced teasing for not fitting the mold—wearing an eye patch with glasses, struggling with "r's," and hearing hurtful comments like "go back to your home country."

THE QUEST FOR ACCEPTANCE

Determined to fit in, I adopted a people-pleasing, perfectionist persona. Straight A's and competition victories became my armor, hiding the internal battles I faced. The pressure took its toll, manifesting in high school as a darkness that led to depression and anxiety attacks. Suicidal thoughts became a daily struggle.

BEHIND THE FACADE

Putting up walls of a happy facade seemed like the only way to navigate the world. I believed that sharing my struggles would make me seem weak and burdensome. It was a lonely journey, compounded by the feeling that there were no resources for adoptees and by adoptees facing similar traumas.

THE POWER OF VULNERABILITY

It wasn't until I discovered the power of being vulnerable and the intrinsic value of my adoption that I embraced a Pineapple Mindset. Adoption, I realized, is not just a blip in our past; it forms the foundation of our existence and identity.

FROM DARKNESS TO LIGHT

Choosing to share my journey and embrace vulnerability has taken me on an incredible path. I've traveled to over 35 countries, worked globally, presented in front of diverse audiences, and mentored fellow adoptees. Now, I'm embarking on a new adventure—starting my own business with the hope of reaching and inspiring more people like you.

LET'S CONNECT!

Thank you for being a part of my journey. Let's connect, share stories, and explore the extraordinary potential that comes with embracing our unique selves. Feel free to reach out, and let's continue this journey together.

Embracing the sweetness of life with a Pineapple Mindset!

What is a Pineapple Mindset?

  1. Standing Tall and Wearing a Crown - Be your authentic self

  2. Being strong and sweet - Be vulnerable

  3. Growing in a community - Have a healthy community

 
 
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